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Monday. 7.24.06 7:30pm
Ok I'm going to have another moral rant here. It is something that I must talk about because it is an issue with young people now a days. The trend of being bi-curious has suddenly become popular among girls and guys. Girls say they want a lesbian experience once in their life, that be either kissing or sex...most go for the kissing first and then discover whether they are really attracted to the same sex. I guess that goes the same for some guys who want to know if they are truely gay. But it seems straight girls are becoming more open to the idea of 'being' with another girl than guys are... Is it because it is in the displayed in shows such as 'The O.C' and 'Big Brother'?

I think many girls become bi-curious because of the peer pressure and media pressure placed upon them. I know of someone who just broke up from a relationship just because his girlfriend was bi-curious and went and kissed another girl when they had an arguement. It hurt him very much because she had not taken their relationship seriously and felt that it was 'no-big-deal' to kiss another person, even if they were female. She didn't see the problem in it. But to him it was cheating, it was selfish for her to fufill her lust and desires while they were having problems.

Plus it became a moral and values issue, that they saw this as a sign that they didnt have the same opinions. It is difficult to be in a relationship where 2 people do not hold the same values as each other, especially if those are deeply embedded and forms the foundation of a person. It can be seen as offensive and hurtful to target someone's values. It was probably best that they broke up, because they were fighting all the time and a future would not be certain for them. He is certain this is the end of their relationship, he seems very hurt by her, and they may not speak again. It was probably for the best.

I often talk to my girlfriends and F about being bi-curious. I have always wondered what it would be like. But I know I will never ever act upon it. My values and beliefs deter me from being too curious and I am glad. Becuz I would not want to be someone who does it just because the girl next to me does it. It is something I would not be proud of and I know that it is not something I would gain. I dunno why girls kiss and tell and expect to be respected for their actions...why do it if you are not 100% lesbian and sincere with that kiss. I dont mind lesbians, but being bi-curious is just lust.

I guess that will upset my bf that I will never kiss a girl...hehe cuz the guys like that action. But that is why there is porn and strip clubs for them to fufill their visual fantasies. It is a fantasy - bi curious, but is it worth giving up something good? It is the same with tattoos, I would love to get one, but I dont want to get it cuz everyone else is. I am my own self, it is my body and I'll do what I want with it, I dont need a tattoo to express myself and my identity...but I dont care if other people do cuz it is their decision. They are their own person, as long they are doing it for themselves, not because of the pressure of the popular group.
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eww
okay the only reason girls are like that is because they want attention. They are nothing but attention whores. "bi-curious" is just a label for even more attention. Be happy your not weak enough to be like the rest of those people.
» redintersectsme on 2006-07-25 03:11:24

thanx
Thanks for agreeing with me. But it is so disappointing to know that this guy is considering getting back with this girl, I guess he still cares. But clearly she doesnt care as much about him. Bi-curious is a stupid phrase for those attention whores, why dont they get a mind of their own!
» von-nation on 2006-07-26 09:39:04

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