I think I have finally grown up and realised that friends cannot be together in the same place forever. We can't grow old, and visit each other always and have our children raised together cuz life takes us on different journeys and sometimes it can be far away, where we cannot see each other for years. Having my small, lil family it has got me used to the idea of not being around my friends as much. Even though I miss them so, I know I have my own life to live and they have theirs. And we will always call and stay in touch cuz that is the only way!

If I was to ever leave Perth, it would be very sad. I am a person who cherishes her childhood friends like gold. But have learnt to be on my own and embrace new friendships. Come on!! I have accepted Michelle leaving to Pt Hedland for 2 years already...and grown to the fact of not seeing her and discussing day to day things with her. Seeing as she and I have been friends since we were 6! Also seeing her photos on facebook with her work friends, shows me that she very happy and having fun enjoying her life. Even though it is no longer the same times days like we used to have in primary school/highschool...and it is not with me, I am still glad she found her happiness away from Perth.

Same goes for Tiff and Yohana, all I can hope for is that they are happy. Cuz I am not beside them in person when they are going through the hardtimes and stress. I can only give them a call and pray for their lives. Growing old has suddenly 'sucked'... things will inevitably change. We will grow up, grow apart and our goals will no longer be the same like 'finish highschool', 'pass the TEE', 'Go to uni' etc... it's on a more personal pathway now.

Heidi who is getting married soon, tells me how she despises change and does not want us to leave Perth. She wants us to all have kids and grow up with each other, whilst us mums (girlfriends) sit, chat and laugh over coffee or hot chocolate hehe. I do wish that too! But I also think she is getting "cold feet"...cuz marriage is a rite of passage. To some...being married suddenly labels you as an 'adult' who does 'old' stuff. haha.

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